Archive for the ‘Joe’ Category

Green Social Media On The Rise

Thursday, May 15th, 2008

Balibones mentioned me in his list of twenty eco-minded social media users he follows, and I’m very thankful. The list has many people who are really down to earth and are making a difference both in the conscious sphere of the Web and offline, all in their own personal ways.

Environmentally-related content has enjoyed a great deal of success lately, and it’s rare that an eco-centric story doesn’t hit the front page of Digg. But more niche Green-friendly social media sites are on the rise, and they’re becoming a great place to share conscious living content that would otherwise get lost in the pile on bigger sites.

Four of my favorites are:

From stories about fruits and vegetables, the difference between vegans and vegetarians, to green weddings, it’s easy to get Green content to the front page.

Whatever your motivation – whether you’re looking to promote a good story you’ve found or just looking to take a break from usual news – they’re great sites and I highly recommend checking them out.

Think Twice Before You Hand Out That Chaaaaange

Saturday, April 26th, 2008

If you live in Denver, you’ve probably been approached by someone looking for change or have seen people standing with signs at strategic positions (usually intersections in high-traffic areas that get congested at rush hour).

They’re everywhere, and no matter how awesome the city of Denver thinks it is by saying they’ll get rid of homelessness in 10 years, we all know it’s not gonna happen. “Homeless” people are here to stay, and we’ll continue to get hounded no matter what.

And no, putting money in the homeless meter is not going to help. Especially when the dude is standing next to you as you’re reassuring him that putting money in the meter is going to help end all homelessness, including his.

I’ve been taken advantage of quite a few times by panhandlers. Usually it’s been by the aggressive ones – those that use intimidation or create a high stress situation from which you really badly want to escape. They know that by making you really uncomfortable or freak out, you’re more likely to hand over whatever change or cash you personally know you have. Guilt is a very powerful tool, especially for panhandlers.

Because of some bad experiences in the past few months, I’ve made it a point not to give out money anymore. Frankly, I’m tired of doing it.

It’s not that I’m not sympathetic, but I simply don’t feel that it helps much at all, and I never know what they actually do with it. Plus, it sucks to lose the quarters that I’ve been saving to do laundry with, and I have to pull out another $20 from the ATM, go to a grocery store, and get change all over again. When possible, I do buy food if we’re close to a corner store or fast food place.

Anyway, not all supposed “homeless” people are liars who simply want to kick back and let society do the rest of the work while they reap the benefits. But if you’ve ever wondered if some people do it just so they don’t have to work, the answer is yes, and if you’ve suspected they can make a lot of money from it, yes again.

Here’s a perfect example, and one that will make you think twice before you hand out your change the next time you’re on the street:

It would be wrong to assume that every panhandler is a fake. There really are some people out there who got dealt a rough hand in life. Some suffer from severe mental illness, were cast out by their family and friends, and are doomed to wandering the streets with just enough knowledge of how to feed themselves and survive each day. Those are the people that need help the most.

But how can we distinguish the fakes from those that really need help? And should we always give money, hoping they really needed help and we did the right thing? As unfair as it may sound, I personally don’t think it’s possible to always make the right judgment, and we shouldn’t feel obligated to give money.

For the foreseeable future, I’m going to stick to my no-to-money, yes-to-food policy. However, I’m sure that others may have a different opinion and different strategy for dealing with panhandlers. What do you do when asked for change on the streets?

Makoto is Coming to Boulder!

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

I was on the UNNet forums and saw the flyer above. Makoto is playing in Boulder and needless to say, I’M STOKED!!! This show is gonna be so sick!

So far, the Denver/Boulder area has been consistently bringing in big DNB headliners and bringing Makoto is huge. In the past few years, I’ve seen LTJ Bukem twice, AI, Goldie (even got to take a shot from Mr. Metalheadz himself :D), Marcus Intalex, and more.

Definitely gonna get my tickets ahead of time. If any of you want to get tickets too, you can buy them here.

Still Working On It

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

DSCF2185.JPG

Still working on the site. Been really busy with the design of our Wedding site and now I’m moving on to integrating it with Wordpress, if it’s worth the trouble.

Anyway, I got tired of the Headsetoptions theme and switched over to the very awesome Futurosity Vero, by Robert Ellis at Futurosity.com.

More to come…

Under Construction…Stay Tuned for More

Sunday, February 17th, 2008

Our site is under construction…still. I’m finally freeing up some time to work on this awesome new template by Heatsetoptions.org and add some personal touches that reflect the tastes of Granola and myself.

Stay tuned for a new design and also a new section for that will have all the details for our wedding, coming up on July 19 :)

- Joe

It’s good to be alive

Monday, December 17th, 2007

I was sitting in church with Christina when suddenly I felt a sharp, piercing pain in my heart. After the first pain and I began to hold my chest, I experienced three more, but less intense waves of pain. Around the last few waves, I also felt very slight pain in my left arm and also on my right shoulder. I just sat still, breathing carefully until it passed.

I’ve had some similar pain in the lungs from time to time when I try to breathe too fast or get up too quick, but not in my heart, and not like this. I didn’t think I could be having a heart attack since I’m relatively young (24), so I just sat through church and went shopping for groceries with Christina afterward.

After a few hours had passed without incident and we came home and ate a good meal though, I sat down to read up a few things about what had happened. By this time, my heart wasn’t hurting, but I had faint feelings of the muscle being tired or worn, similarly to how an arm or leg muscle feels after having a cramp. My breathing wasn’t terrible, but it was a bit slower than usual.

Now, I’m not normally a WebMD diagnostic freak and definitely don’t enjoy reading about symptoms on the site, somehow trying to match them up with major problems I *know* I don’t have. However, being that I had pain in my heart, I did go to WebMD and learned about what the typical symptoms and causes of heart attacks are.

Heart attack diagram

The things that immediately stood out were the descriptions of the pain and also the pain the pain extending to the left arm. I began to worry seeing as I had an experience that somewhat came close to what was being described on the site, and especially after reading the warning that those symptoms can sometimes be a sign of a heart attack just waiting to happen.

Three years ago, I was diagnosed with a small hole in my heart and was told it wasn’t life-threatening and that I should keep an eye on it. Well…needless to say, I can’t say I have. My diet hasn’t always been the greatest either, and I almost stopped exercising altogether in the past year and gained a good thirty extra pounds. I’ve become very active recently (biking, hiking, climbing, camping, snowboarding, futbol, running, walking) and stopped eating beef and most meat products…so I’m getting better.

Still, I decided to call my grandmother and grandfather in Sylvania, Ohio, to get their opinion. John, my grandfather, has survived multiple heart attacks and has a defibrullator implanted. He’s a strong man and if there was anyone that was going to know about the symptoms and pain, it was him. Even though he said I was probably too young for a heart attack, he basically said the best thing I could do was get to a hospital ASAP and get checked out to diagnose any possible damage.

And I’ll cut the story short here because I’m falling asleep (never write when you were already dozing off after installing 15+ Wordpress plugins)…but we did go to the hospital and after 6 wasted hours of our life that we’ll never get back, I was told my heart was doing good.

ECG

They ran an EKG test (6 hours after I had arrived) and everything’s cool. Nevertheless, I am supposed to see my primary care physician and get a referral to a cardiologist. Before that can happen, I also have to get my medical records from the OSU Medical Center, so that should be fun!

All in all, it was an eventful day because although I was OK in the end, there were moments I was very happy to be alive, and really hoping that I would get an opportunity to do all the things I want to accomplish and do in life. I felt myself praying very hard and hoping as much as possible that my time wouldn’t be cut short today, or hopefully not in the near future.

It’s so easy to just brush off pain for me and never think twice…but today was certainly a day that made me strive to pay more attention to my body and my health in general.

Finally…it was a day that truly made me realize again just how lucky I am to be alive, and most of all, how lucky I am to have Christina in my life. She was at my side throughout the whole ordeal, and I am truly blessed to have her love, caring and kindness. I want to make sure to stay healthy and keep my heart strong, and I hope we can grow old and enjoy a lifetime of happiness and joy together.